One of the questions prospective Ocean Hills Country Club buyers sometimes wonder about is what life in a 55+ community will be like when the grandchildren come to visit – especially the little ones.
It’s something we had never really thought about until last year when our first grandson was born. We raised both of our girls here in the area. During that time, we spent countless afternoons/evenings here in Ocean Hills visiting my folks, but now as grandparents ourselves, we are already dreaming up all of the fun adventures we want our grandson to experience when he comes to visit.
Ocean Hills Country Club was not designed around the five-and-under crowd. We don’t have playground equipment inside the community, and younger visitors can’t participate in every amenity. Activities such as golf, billiards and even time at the pool may be limited by age or designated guest hours.
But that certainly doesn’t mean little grandchildren won’t love coming to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. In fact, we tell our grandson that OHCC is where ALL the grandmas and grandpas live. 🙂
OHCC is surrounded by beaches, parks, gardens, farms, museums and some of Southern California’s best family attractions. There are places nearby for an easy hour of play before naptime—and bigger adventures worthy of an entire day.
The community also makes preparing for a visit a little easier. Through Grandma’s Closet, residents can borrow useful baby and toddler equipment such as high chairs and playpens rather than asking their children to travel with half the nursery. Many community celebrations and special events also welcome residents’ family members and friends.
As grandparents ourselves, this is a list we’re excited to use as our grandson grows.
Here are some of the best places to take grandchildren five and under while they’re visiting Ocean Hills Country Club.
Close to Home: Easy Everyday Outings
Sometimes you don’t need a major attraction. You just need a swing, a slide, a few ducks or enough room for a toddler to run around before lunch.
1. Oak Riparian Park and Lake Calavera
Located near Lake Boulevard, Oak Riparian Park is one of the closest places to combine playground time with a little nature exploration. Children can play, walk a portion of the nearby trail and look for birds, ducks and other signs of wildlife.
This is a particularly good choice for a short morning outing that doesn’t require tickets, reservations or an entire day’s worth of preparation.
2. Calavera Hills Community Park
Calavera Hills Community Park offers playground equipment, grassy areas, picnic tables and plenty of room for active little legs. Pack a snack or lunch and let the grandchildren play without turning the outing into a complicated production.
3. Buena Vista Park—The Duck Pond
Many locals simply know this pretty spot off Shadowridge Drive as “the duck pond.” It’s a sweet, low-key place to walk near the water, watch the ducks and enjoy being outside together.
For babies and young toddlers, sometimes seeing ducks up close is every bit as exciting as a major attraction. Just remember that wildlife is best enjoyed without feeding it.
4. Alga Norte Community Park
Alga Norte in Carlsbad is a slightly larger outing, but still conveniently close to OHCC. The park has an expansive, universally accessible playground with shade structures, picnic areas and plenty of room to explore.
There is also a children’s splash pad within the aquatic center. Because admission and operating hours can change, check the current schedule before promising the grandchildren a water day.
5. Alta Vista Botanical Gardens
Tucked inside Brengle Terrace Park in Vista, Alta Vista Botanical Gardens may be one of the area’s best hidden gems for grandparents and young children.
The gardens include whimsical art, ponds, turtles, walking paths and a dedicated children’s garden with interactive features. The monthly Kids in the Garden classes offer another reason to check the calendar before a visit.
6. Oceanside Harbor and Harbor Beach
Oceanside Harbor makes it easy to create an outing as short or as long as your grandchild can manage. Visit the playground, watch the boats, walk along the harbor, play in the sand and stop for lunch or ice cream in Harbor Village.
Restrooms, showers and picnic areas make Harbor Beach more practical with young children than many beach locations—and there is plenty to see even if no one actually gets into the water.
7. Storytime at a Local Library
The Vista, Carlsbad and Oceanside libraries regularly offer baby, toddler and family storytimes. These programs are free, easy and especially helpful when you need a quieter outing or the weather isn’t cooperating.
Check the current library calendar, since days, times and age groupings change throughout the year.
8. Take a Train Ride
For a train-loving toddler, the transportation can be the adventure. Board the SPRINTER or COASTER in Oceanside, ride to a nearby destination, find a snack and come home again.
It doesn’t have to be an elaborate itinerary. To a two- or three-year-old, riding a real train with Grandma and Grandpa may be the most memorable part of the visit. Check schedules and service alerts before leaving.
Worth the Short Drive
When you have a few hours—or need something special enough to build the day around—these North County destinations offer plenty for younger grandchildren.
9. San Diego Botanic Garden
The San Diego Botanic Garden in Encinitas is one of our favorite discoveries for the five-and-under crowd.
Seeds of Wonder was designed specifically for preschool-aged children and features a playhouse, dinosaur garden and miniature railroad. Hamilton Children’s Garden adds Toni’s Tree House, a mountain stream and hands-on nature play. The wide paths also make much of the garden manageable with a stroller.
10. Moonlight Beach
Moonlight Beach is especially convenient with little ones because it is located at street level—no long staircase down a bluff while carrying a toddler and all the gear that comes with one.
The adjacent playground and grassy area allow children to move easily between swings, slides, sand and a picnic. Restrooms and outdoor showers add to its grandparent-friendly appeal.
11. San Elijo Lagoon Nature Center
At San Elijo Lagoon, families can take a short nature walk, look for birds and animals and explore the exhibits inside the nature center. It provides enough activity to feel like an adventure without being overwhelming for little children.
Look for family programs and special events when planning your visit.
12. Cardiff Tide Pools
At low tide, the reef near Cardiff State Beach reveals crabs, anemones and other tiny sea creatures. Preschoolers who are steady on their feet may love searching the rocks while holding a grandparent’s hand.
Check the tide chart before going, wear shoes with good traction and remember that the rocks can be wet and slippery.
13. Leo Carrillo Ranch Historic Park
Adults may appreciate the history and beautiful grounds at Leo Carrillo Ranch in Carlsbad. Young grandchildren will probably be more interested in the peacocks.
The historic buildings, gardens and wandering peafowl make this a lovely place for a relaxed walk together. The birds are accustomed to visitors but should never be touched, chased or fed.
14. Mellano Farm Stand
Mellano Farm Stand in Oceanside’s inland valley is worth following throughout the year. Depending on the season, families may find flowers, produce, U-pick experiences, tractor rides, live music and special celebrations such as watermelon and fall festivals.
Because farm activities change with the growing season, check the current event calendar before visiting.
15. Museum of Making Music
The Museum of Making Music in Carlsbad is a manageable indoor outing for a music-loving preschooler. Children can see instruments from different eras, hear how music has changed and experiment with interactive displays.
It’s a nice alternative when you want something engaging without committing to an enormous museum or full-day theme park.
16. Children’s Museum of Discovery
The Children’s Museum of Discovery in Escondido may be one of the best all-around destinations on this list. It was created around hands-on learning and includes indoor and outdoor experiences for young children.
Little ones can explore the dedicated Toddler Tide Pool, pretend to shop and cook, play with light and air, build with blocks, experiment with water and investigate the outdoor discovery garden. Because nearly everything is meant to be touched, children can explore without grandparents repeatedly having to say, “Don’t touch that!”
Bigger Grandparent Adventures
These destinations require a little more planning, but they can become the highlight of a family visit.
17. SEA LIFE Aquarium and LEGOLAND California
SEA LIFE Aquarium can be a good introduction to the LEGOLAND Resort for very young children. Its colorful sea life and child-height viewing areas are often easier to manage than a full day in a theme park.
When children are ready for LEGOLAND, DUPLO Playtown, Fun Town, Dino Valley and Miniland are among the areas best suited to the two-to-five crowd. Check ride height requirements before visiting so you’ll know which attractions your grandchild can enjoy.
18. San Diego Zoo Safari Park
Animals are only part of the experience at the Safari Park. Young visitors can also climb and explore in several play spaces, including an African village-themed playground, shaded discovery areas and seasonal water features.
The park is large, so bring or rent a stroller, choose a few priorities and resist the temptation to see everything in one visit.
19. Birch Aquarium
Birch Aquarium in La Jolla is compact enough to enjoy between naps. Aquarium windows at young children’s eye level, colorful fish, penguins and tide-pool touch experiences make it engaging even for babies and young toddlers.
The outdoor terrace also gives the grown-ups a spectacular view of the Pacific.
20. San Diego Zoo
The San Diego Zoo is a classic family adventure, but Wildlife Explorers Basecamp makes it especially appealing for children under five. The area combines smaller animal habitats with nature-based play and exploration.
The guided bus tour is also a welcome option when little legs—and grandparent legs—need a break.
Seasonal Adventures to Put on the Calendar
Some of the best grandchild outings only happen during certain times of the year. Depending on when the family visits, look for:
- The Flower Fields at Carlsbad Ranch
- Strawberry picking in Carlsbad
- Pumpkin patches and fall festivals at local farms
- Oceanside and Carlsbad holiday celebrations
- The San Diego County Fair
- Summer concerts, outdoor movies and community festivals
- Family-and-friends events inside Ocean Hills Country Club
Preparing for the Grandkids is Part of the Fun
Living in a 55+ community may mean that a few activities look different when young grandchildren visit. But it doesn’t mean giving up the joy of having them stay—or wondering how you’ll keep them entertained.
In many ways, Ocean Hills Country Club is an ideal home base for grandparent life. You can enjoy the peaceful, active-adult lifestyle you want every day, while beaches, playgrounds, farms, gardens, aquariums and world-class family attractions are waiting just beyond the gates. And, we haven’t met a kid yet that doesn’t love a golf cart ride!
And after a busy outing with the grandchildren, coming home to the peace and quiet of OHCC may feel like an amenity all its own.
As our grandson grows, we plan to keep trying new places and adding to this list. If you live in Ocean Hills Country Club and have a favorite place to take your young grandchildren, we’d love to hear about it. Your recommendation may be included in a future update.
Before visiting, check each destination’s official website for current hours, admission, reservations, age requirements and seasonal availability.
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