One of the best things about living in Ocean Hills Country Club is the sense of community – the way people extend a hand – not only to wave at you as you pass, but also in times of need.
When my mom had an unexpected emergency surgery, I was so thankful to live just down the street. It was one of the many reasons we chose to live in Ocean Hills Country Club. It made it so much easier to be helpful and to provide support as she got back on her feet.
That said, it was a stressful time and it was amazing how neighbors were ready to jump in and help any way they could.
I wanted to take a minute and write down some of the most helpful ways people showed up for my mom in all of the best ways during her recovery because there have been plenty of times in my life where I wanted to help in similar situations, but wasn’t sure how.
If you ever find yourself wanting to help a neighbor, but aren’t really sure how to do it without overstepping, you can’t go wrong with any of these simple, but meaningful gestures:
- Leave a Kind Note at Their Door
A warm card or note saying you’re thinking of them goes a long way. Let them know you’re nearby and happy to help if they need anything, no pressure. - Offer to Pick Up Groceries or Prescriptions
“I’m heading to the store — can I grab you anything?” is a low-key way to offer real help without making them feel dependent. - Drop Off a Meal (or Freezer-Friendly Foods)
A homemade dish, takeout, or frozen meal left on their porch with a short note shows care without requiring conversation or cleanup. Pro tip: Use disposable containers so they don’t have to worry about returning dishes. - Bring in Mail or Packages
If you notice mail stacking up or deliveries outside, check in via note or text and offer to bring things inside. It’s a small gesture that makes life easier. - Share a Small “Thinking of You” Gift
A flower pot, magazine, book, or candle can brighten their day. Keep it simple and cheerful, no visit necessary. - Send a Friendly Text Message
A quick check-in message like “Hope you’re healing well! Let me know if you need anything this week” opens the door for connection without intrusion. - Offer a Ride or Quick Errand Help
If they’re not driving, offer a lift to an appointment, store, or community event — especially helpful for those with follow-ups or limited mobility. - Help with Trash Bins or Pet Needs
Offer to take out the trash on pick-up day or walk their dog if needed. Little tasks can feel overwhelming during recovery.
These small actions reflect the heart of community living – kindness, respect and quiet support. Keep this list handy or share it in your own neighborhood to foster a stronger sense of community and belonging.
If you haven’t already signed up for our INSIDER newsletter, click here. It comes out on the first Sunday of every month and is a great way to get to know Ocean Hills Country Club.
